BAHAMAS DIARY, DAY ONE, 06.27.08

July 2, 2008

 The plane touchdown at 11:45 a.m., a good 2.5 hours fligh from Detroit.  We took a taxi-van, not a taxicab because our luggage would not fit in a small car on our way to the Port of Miami.  After about 15 minutes slithering through the unfamiliar city streets, the van reached the seaport and we found Benjo and Aimee excitedly waiting for us.  My son handed me a rayban as a birthday gift on an occasion that was two weeks past, while others were locked in tight embrace and hug and enthusiastic kiss. My son had embraced me tight, though not as tight as when he embraced her mom and two sisters.

VIEW OF MIAMI PORT FROM THE SHIP

 While we arrived at the port from the airport at around 12:15 p.m. and boarded it about one hour later and sailed to the Bahamas at 5:00 p.m., you do not feel any need to rush because the excitement has yet to die down, and inside the ship itself, was a total fun. 

        Passengers were being processed at the port before they are allowed to board the ship.  The security was tight as the airport security; every bag and container were being scanned and every passenger has a snapshot taken at the gate. This has caused some snag, but it makes you feel safe.  You have to trade off your yearning for convenience with a feeling of security because you want your trip to be pleasurable as it is, and not one that is very nightmarish.

STARBOARD LOADING PASSENGERS  BACK TO MIAMI
STARBOARD LOADING PASSENGERS

   The cruise ship is named “Carnival Fascination”, registered in the Bahamas, and which according to its literature, has an international crew of 920, (you would be amazed to find that majority of the crew are Filipinos, others are Jamaicans, Indonesians, Tahitians, Americans, Germans, and Europeans). The ship has an Italian ship captain; it can accommodate 2,657 passengers, weighs 70,367 tons, length, 855 feet, width, 104, eleven decks, or about the height of a 12 story building; 3 outdoor pools, 2 restaurants, shops, 6 jacuzzis, fitness center, spa, beauty salon, casino, bars, library, 58 elevators, 28 suites, 58 verandah cabins, 14 powered life boats with 15 passengers capacity each perched alongside the sundeck, colored life jackets for everyone complete with whistle and beckon lights, satellite radios, communications equipment and a fire department.

         Though you find an initial fun and excitement as you settled down inside the ship and were required to attend a 15-minute crash course on how to put on a life vest and familiarize yourself with the evacuation routine before the ship sails away, your mind brings you back to the realities of the ill-fated MV Princess of the Stars with 864 passengers that  sank  off Sibuyan island on June 21 as a  result of neglect and failure in regulation. 

                To this day, only 33 survivors have been found and it was tragic.                         

         Before we sail to the Bahamas we have eaten our lunch at the sundeck where the pools are. The passengers is a mini United Nations, composed of nationalities from different nations. Young and old, thin and obese, fair skinned and dark skinned, beautiful people and less beautiful, but all seem to work in one symmetry and balance that this cruise would  be a wonderful one  which they could remember and relive.

    

At the sundeck food stable, we have fish and chicken, fruits and drinks.  You can go back in line to satisfy all your cravings.   Your social  conscience had ached a little bit again because while I have encouraged my children to finish the food on their plates just as I told them when they were much younger, you can see chunks of leftovers  on most plates and they have to be discarded and must go to waste. Some passengers would not care much of this wastage.  The passengers already paid  good money for the food and the trip.  But as you think of your own  people who have no food on their table that day,   your sadness sinks back in.    

        It is at the fine dining area where we met Bernice and his supervisor, Anthony, a Jamaican who speaks halting Tagalog. Bernice is in his late twenties with wife and a son in Valenezuela, Metro Manila and works on a $1000 monthly salary and shares in the tip, which could run another $1000 more.  He goes home every six months.        

        We also met Sarah a receptionist in one of the shopping areas near the elevator, whom we were not able to know where she is from and Rafael, the photographer from Pangasinan, who also receive $1000 monthly salary plus commission if he makes a quota on the number of shots he had taken.

 Other crew we just happen to know to be Filipinos because they would greet us in crisp and unadulterated Tagalog.  Life in the ship is enjoyable even if you are not there as a guest.  You do not sweat much  because it has a centralized air-conditioning and with the food already paid for by the guest, I could venture that they must eat the same food as the guests. 

        We went to the front deck where the captain has the full vision of the ocean to navigate the ship.  We were on top of the captain’s cabin holding on the railings that surround the ship and the warmth atmosphere was replaced with the gentle sea breeze caressing your face, people were excited, grinning and jostling on the limited  space facing the wide expanse of the Atlantic. 

         The strong wind would blow a lady’s skirt and exposed her underwear but she was  oblivious of this innocent exposure and the intrusion on her person because like everyone else,  the focus was on the wide expanse of the Atlantic and the serenity of the ocean despite its dangerous possibilities.  Or one could guess that the lady would not bring her up skirts down so she can  bare the contour of her behind, or she had her hands tied up protecting her hair from being disheveled by the ruckus wind. 

       But this is a cruise ship where girls would bathe under the sun or in a pool with skimpy bikinis.  This few square inch of clothing either highlights the contour of your body in a magnificent way or distorts it.  If you have hundred summers gone by, your body would not do justice to your bikini because it is remarkably easy to distinguish  if the pleat is that of the skin or the fabric.  If hundred summers had not passed you by you may consider passing it up too  if you are slightly overweight. This lady is neither, so she would not mind the exposure at all.               

While you think that bikinis are objectionable only on those two situations, you find it still objectionable at all times when worn by your daughters. While you see some beauty of this scanty clothing in someone else’s daughter you see outright fornication in yours.  It is a double-standard of perceiving things.

     But you have to accept the fact that your daughters have grown, and have to live with that fact.

       Those little girls you use to hold with your arms and toss them on the air giggling with reckless abandon as you catch them with your bare hands as they descend were gone.  Time flies and you yearn for those innocent days of your kids, how’d your wish you can hold the time still.

        As the ship throttles in full speed ahead, the horn atop blew hard several times that almost shatter our eardrums, and the vibration could almost knock you down, but people simply covered their ears and still managed to laugh.  No one was upset,  a good sign enough that the trip could really be really that fun.    

       We tarried a little while at the deck.  In this place of the world at summer time,  the sun was still up at 7:00 p.m., but we were hungry.  So we went back to our cabin, and dressed up formally for a dinner.    

      After dinner  we went to a Karaoke  Bar. Loren and Aimee sang beautifully in front of these mini-United Nations “delegation”. Loren had learned to sing and to play the piano because she was tutored to these two disciplines. She was the lead actress in the musical “Guys in Dolls” in Divine Child high school, an almost all white school, this year and many of her classmates and friends were asking her to audition for the American Idol.    I would settle for a slot in the Philippine Idol.    

     I asked her to sing “I Will Always Love You” by  Whitney Houston.  The African  American guests in the bar went  on their feet shouting and applauding after they found out that she can hit the high notes of the song with such an ease and flamboyance.  They also sang with her on their seats but a mother have to hush her noisy kids so she can feel the flavor of the Ms. Houston’s piece in an Asian female vocalist.             

      While I have long known that Loren can sing, I did not know that my son Benjo can also sing. He belted a song the title and lyrics of which I do not know but it turned out good and exciting  that even the male audience in the crowd ended up singing and imagining they have guitars in hands strumming them with fancy string combination and notes as Benjo would slide from one side of the stage to another side pretending that he has the same guitar in hand strumming it with the notes that accompanies the song.   

        My daughter Kaycee, is normally silent and bashful.  She could not compete in this stage of accolade and admiration, but she has her own talent which every parent can admire.  She is still single, handles her finances pretty well and at age 27, she has her own house, a car and the magnanimity to gift her younger sister with a used red BMW that costs about $10,000.  Though the cruise expense was Loren’s high school graduation gift from her brother, Benjo.      

        Now, I am getting to know my kids again.     

     We went back to our cabin to sleep, but tarried awhile at the Casino poker table to try our luck. I was unlucky but Benjo and TJ were luckier. But it was fun playing at a  computerized casino table with opponents as real persons, and the only computer input was the card shuffling, dealing, winning cards selection  and bets computation.        

          Day one was over, but it was worth reliving.

Bahamas Diary Day 2

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INSIDE THE SHIP

INSIDE THE SHIP

 

BENJO AT KARAOKE BAR
BENJO AT KARAOKE BAR

 

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Bahamas Diary, Day Two, 06.28.08

July 2, 2008

  We disembarked after breakfast of coffee,  bread and cheese, scrambled eggs and hotcakes at the pre-assigned table in the fine dining area of the ship where  Bernice and Anthony served as our wait persons. 

      At Nassau port, many locals offered you rides to the city.  Andrea whose husband was one of the regulars in the port,  in a “barong-tagalog” look-alike,  showed us the map of the island and the places we can go to.  Andrea drives a Daihatsu van while her husband stays at the port to look for more tourists.  

  1. Nassau: Population 301,790 (2005 estimate) Population density 30 persons per sq. km., 78 persons per sq mi (2005 estimate) Urban population distribution 89 percent (2003 estimate) Rural population distribution 11 percent (2003 estimate).              

Its chief revenue is tourism and could be the reason why the locals would treat tourists so well. No fast break operators who would  rip you off of your precious dollar.

 The inhabitants are dark-skinned but are tidy and I see no one sporting rugs and begging on the streets for food and you have yet to hear someone swearing loudly or speaking in foul-language.   At the port, we have to haggle for a price of services with Andrea,  who drives a van to bring you in any part  of the island, but you would not quibble for a price of food they vend because it might be too embarrassing to ask for a dollar off  your food from a street vendor.  Though one “buko” sells at $5.00  at the water tower at Fincastle where the locals also sell island memorabilia to tourists.

 The city streets remind us of most of our two-lane streets in Manila so were the houses in the island are identical to houses in the skirts of  Metro Manila; medium size, simple and of mostly paved and cemented with corrugated iron sheets for roofs.  Only that their community is cleaner and there is no apparent pollution. 

        Cars are small and there are no trucks.  The driver seats of some cars are  on the left hand side just like our cars in the country, but some cars have the driver seats on the right like the cars from Europe and you have to drive on the left side of the road.

         The city is the seat of government of the Bahamas Island which comprises several islets.  It has its own Parliament whose members are elected every five years by the locals. It has achieved its independence in 1973, though it has been the colony of the British since 1717.  However, up to this date, the Governor remains the representative of  Queen Elizabeth of England which is quite odd.

FAMILY BEHIND THE CRUISE SHIP

FAMILY BEHIND THE CRUISE SHIP

         It is much warmer in this City compared to most U.S. States but the atmosphere is not damp.  The island’s climate  brings my memory back to Manila and  my boyhood in the fishing village of Bagacay, Tinambac, Camarines Sur.  The sea breeze as my mother used to say when she was still alive,  was  good for clearing up  your sinuses and your lungs from asthma and pneumonia infection.          

      The Atlantis Hotel which is about 10 minutes ride from the port of Nassau offers its bed to guest from $400 to $2000 a night. It is one of the engineering marvels of the modern times.   The entrance is built on the edge of the island and its main structure is built on seabed.  Huge palisades at the entrance ushered by  7 winged horses in bronze sculpture in galloping or flying  positions around a fountain.

         At the hotel basement are six panels of thick glasses; two on each side which served as the wall of the basement and  separated by huge concrete posts. 

      On your side is the inside of the hotel while the other side is the open sea.  The fish are in controlled area where they can swim freely except towards the sea. kiskisan

       You can see through the glass panels variety of fish like milkfish, pampano, talakitok, the bigger version of “sapsap”,  tanguigui, kiskisan, malasugui, stingrays, sharks and palad.  Palad is a fish variety where one side is different from the opposite side.  There are other fish I could not name and identify in this pool of sea creatures gliding elegantly beside this basement glass-cage and the suave fins that propel their graceful motion under water hardly mirrors their objection to the constriction of space in this basement exterior.  They were there to regale their guests.  

I would bet though that had my father been alive today and could have afforded him the pleasure of bringing him to this famous hideaway of Western tourists, he could identify every fish  in this hotel sea-basement.    

     The water in this basement  sea-aquarium is placid and  bluish and is matched  only by the serenity and poise of these fish swimming graciously and they  were not fighting for a territory or a piece nutrient that could lie in the sea’s underbelly.   There is total symmetry not only of the structure that houses the fish but also of the calm and tranquil environment.   I can tour the three walls and be soothed by the peace and stillness of the surrounding and chilled only  by a nostalgic memory of my father who died poor as foreman of road repair crew of the province after he had left fishing in Bagacay. stingray

      At another part of the island we stopped at Mckenzie, our “turo-turo”  counterpart to lunch. A small plastic plate of “conch”,  a delicacy in the island consisting of a shell entrails, the meat of which has the texture of an escargo (kuhol) or squid or octopus, minus the slime and fish odor, and is being served raw, “kilawin”  style; its pinkish white meat is sliced thin then mixed with fresh lime and lemon squeeze, bell pepper, onion and black pepper and slices of fresh tomato. The exquisite taste of the conch “kinilaw” is matched only by its price of $9.00, though locals claimed that you can gather conch buried in the sand in most beaches of the Bahamas.   You can also ask your host  to fry the conch instead of serving it  fresh, with baked banana slice, fried rice in soy sauce and French fries for the same price. 

        After a bite of   fresh conch, TJ said that he could live in the island forever subsisting on this delicacy and probably would live much longer free from disease-causing  cholesterol and saturated  fats. I can only nod my head in approval.  The regular bottled water costs one dollar, a bottle of soda 2 dollars  and a tin can of  beer about 4 dollars.           

KAYCEE AT ATLANTIS BASEMENT

KAYCEE AT ATLANTIS BASEMENT

        Before Andrea toured us in this island, we haggled for the price of $160.00 over what she originally wanted as guide and car fee of $180.00. She drove us through the island and showed us the US Consulate Office, his mansion, the parliament, the police academy,  the only college in Nassau, the mansion of the governor of the island, the water tower which is claimed to be the highest structure of the island, which in my estimate is about the height of a 16-story building.  Below this water tower of  85,000 gallons capacity which serves as the water supply for the island is Fort Fincastle where three replicas of big canons are aimed towards the sea.  The port was built somewhere in 1717 by the first governor of the island, Lord Dunmore, a British officer, to ward off marauders or pirates who wanted to seek provisions and amenities from the island.school-of-fish          

          We passed by the cemetery where Nicole Smith and her son Daniele were buried.  Both  were victims of what forensic doctors claimed to be drug overdose.  Both were US citizens but must have found the tranquil environment in the Bahamas as a natural cure for depression and drug dependence.  But once more, your

NASSAU ISLAND CEMETERY WHERE MS NICOLE AND SON WERE BURIED

NASSAU ISLAND CEMETERY WHERE MS NICOLE AND SON WERE BURIED

environment is what you make of it. It is totally impassionate over your conduct and your  own fault.

         This island nation has her own money and the forex is one Bahamian dollar to one US dollar. If everyone is in the tourism industry, you would  find life easy, but those locals who are not earning from the tourist industry would find the  prices of food and services beyond their reach.   The locals are being priced out and deprived of essential services and food because these items  are being catered to the tourists who can afford them.   We have no data though of the percentage of the locals who are not dependent on tourism.

CONCH (pronounced konk), Empty Shell, Meat Being Sliced

CONCH (pronounced konk), Empty Shell, Meat Being Sliced

After eating plateful of conch, fish, rice and baked banana and fries,  Andrea dropped us off at the beach the beauty of which is far less magnificent than the beach in my birthplace, the Atulayan in Sagnay where the water is pristine and clear,  the waves calmer and you can see clearly through the water the pebbles on the ocean bed and the fish that glide beautifully underneath, just like the majestic beach of Caramoan.  The flawless seashore of white sand and pebbles in my beach town  is far more beautiful than this Bahamas beach but it is out of reach from most tourists to be of kiskisan2economic value to the country.  The Bahamas, is a famous hideaway of American tourists  because it is about an hour plane ride from the nearest U.S. State of Florida and about 12 hours by cruise ship, or maybe less by lighter boats which can clock more knots than the big cruise ships. 

        Andrea drove Noemi and my wife to the shopping mall, a walking distance from the cruise ship, while we bathe in the ocean  under the searing heat of the sun and have fun. We did some funny stuff on the beach that only a father and his children can be thrilled about.  At my age, I challenged anyone of my kids to swim to the farthest distance of the ocean from the beach, but nobody accepted my challenge fearful perhaps that  I could suffer from exhaustion and heat stroke in the process.        

       At the beach we leased an umbrella and a plastic folding bed for $25.00.  

FAMILY BELOW ONE OF THE CANONS AT FINCASTLE

FAMILY BELOW ONE OF THE CANONS AT FINCASTLE

This beach adventure was an opportunity  to know my daughters and my son once again and it was also a time to reintroduce myself to my daughter-in-law, Aimee and her brother  TJ. The beach swim was a time worth putting in still photos for posterity,  it was an adventure worth reliving and an eternity  highlighted by  a paradox that it was about to end that day.          view-from-fincastle1

        At 4 p.m., Andrea fetched us from the beach.  Because there were more space in the van, she was able to pick up another five passengers from the beach and was paid additional money in the process.  She said earlier that with the $160 dollars we paid, she already made the quota for the day, but you cannot fault her for being enterprising and make more money when there is an opportunity.  She said she has kids that are in school and would  go to Miami to shop for school supplies and clothes for her children because the price of these items were quite expensive in the island.                

JCC aka Jackie Chan

JCC aka Jackie Chan

        My two daughters were shocked to find that a gallon of milk in this island costs  $8 while it sells at $1.99 dollars in the US. 

       Back at the ship shortly before 5 p.m. , we took our bath in the cabin showers and off to a diner of steak, fish, chicken, soup, fruits, salad and drinks. Bernice and Anthony were there to assist us with their usual unrestrained smile and glee. 

       Some Filipino crew would greet us in the corridors and were proud to speak Tagalog.  Other non-Filipino crew members would greet us also in halting Tagalog like “kumusta” “sana bumalik kayo”, salamat”.   They were speaking the language to seek your approval as if our approval means so much to them. Suddenly you become proud in the belief that your race could inspire, your language is not an incoherent birdlike chirping, but a language you think might become a major one in the likes of Spanish and French. 

       We skipped the karaoke bar and went to watch the live show at the auditorium after dinner.  The dancing and the singing were of the Las Vegas quality, colorful lights were in the likes of the Sin City too, but there was none of the nudity and pornography of the city. 

         Day two was not over unless we dropped by the casino to try another adventure at the poker table. I lost again but Benjo and TJ just made even. But it was fun.   

  

KAYCEE AT THE BEACH

KAYCEE AT THE BEACH

LOREN, KAYCEE, AIMEE AT NASSAU

LOREN, KAYCEE, AIMEE AT NASSAU

NASSAU PORT

NASSAU PORT

7 WINGED HORSES
7 WINGED HORSES
NASSAU CONDOS SEEN FROM ATLANTIS VERANDA
NASSAU CONDOS SEEN FROM ATLANTIS VERANDA
WATER TOWER
WATER TOWER

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BAHAMAS DIARY, DAY THREE, 06.29.08

July 2, 2008
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Bernice, left and Anthony

       At around 7:00 a.m., Noemi who slept with her daughter, Aimee, son TJ and Benjo at adjoining cabin, knocked early in our cabin and roused us up from sleep to tell us that we have to jog on the sundeck while the sun was not up yet.  Despite yesterday’s early afternoon cruise back home, the ship was still at the open sea at 9:00 a.m. the following day, June 29. The leisure sailing was intended so that the passenger guests can savor the full view of the ocean the whole day. 

       We never got the chance to jog at the deck. We ate our breakfast of  “tapsilog” , specially requested by Aimee from the Filipino waiter, Bernice.  Benjo has a slight fever which her mom had diagnosed as sheer fatigue for yesterday’s grueling heat at the beach and could not join us at the table.  His food has to be brought to his cabin.

        I am still on my feet, while my son has to eat his breakfast in bed.  I felt some kind of invulnerability, but  somehow I was sad because my son was sick.  I have to bring two full-plates of oranges, apples and bananas to at his cabin and felt his forehead warm with fever. I took my vicks vaporub from my pouch and rubbed his back and breast and told him that he would feel better soon.BERNES, GLORIA AND NOEMI

       My son will be 29 years old this August.  But when he was a toddler, I always rub his back and chest with vicks vaporub everytime he has a fever, cuddle him on my chest and let him sleep on my chest face down.  The heat generated by my body and his and the balm of the vicks ointment and a payer chant would juice him up to help his anti-bodies excrete the virus-causing infection from his system.  I always find him bouncing back and playing the next morning.  I did  the same routine to my two daughters whenever they are sick. I  am always amazed of how easily they recover from their fever.  From that that time on, I always have a canister of vicks in my pocket and my prayer chant ready whenever I have a sick child in the house.      I have my vicks in my pouch though we have no more babies in the house, Loren, a bustling 19 years old now, because I found it effective in deswelling a sinus, a malady which I have not quite outgrown from childhood.

        Benjo, while still sluggish was able to join us at lunch  on a roofed deck. TJ and I have already played ping-pong and another game where you have to push six circular plastic pucks to a distance of about 15 feet and situate them in rectangular and triangular boxes to score points. My sweat still drips at the launch table, but I felt rejuvenated by this physical encounter.miamigoinghome

    Looking at my revived son at the lunchtime, I felt that my amulet was working  again.

     We ate dinner at the pre-assigned table later in the day. Bernice, a Filipino and Anthony,  a  Jamaican,  were there untiringly serving our food with unrestrained glee on the side.  When the dinner was over, my wife asked to  be photographed with Bernice and Anthony.  She gave them extra tips though the regular tips were already embedded in the bills.  She also hugged them as a token of saying thank you for the splendid job.

             After dinner, we watched the live shows at 8 p.m. and played poker at 10 p.m. while others were shopping at the  galleria for more souvenirs. The activities inside the ship as well as its atmosphere weld in perfect symmetry to make your vacation totally recreational and fun.  It was all right to splurge.kayceemiamibeach1

         Bernice regularly sends money to his wife and young son in Valenzuela, Metro Manila.  He was hardworking, friendly and dedicated to his job.  So were the other Filipino crew members in this ship.  Think of your spending binge inside the ship as your miniscule contribution towards job creation, it will unburden your conscience.

        On this trip, I have found thousand of reasons why I should have taken this vacation rather than botched it up because it was a waste of money, unacceptable and obscene in the light of the fact that most Filipinos have nothing in their food baskets.

       In this travel I saw the microcosm of true Filipino character of frugality, hard work, strength and honesty.  You can always see this character in every overseas worker.  The Pinoy OFW’s that I know would not ask for any special favor or advantage from their employers, only an opportunity to prove their worth. They worked long hours and they worked hard because in their own land opportunities were lacking and if there is one, you are not given a fair playing field.  Juicy government positions as well as contracts are reserved to the cronies and friends of the powerful, if you were an outsider, you have to bribe your way around to get a decent job, or if you were an entrepreneur, you have to share your margin to government officials to get the contract.inside-the-ship-family

       I found the validation of the true Filipino character in Bernice and other Filipino crew members of the ship who tried hard to make their guests happy and comfortable so the ship will become profitable and assure them of long-term employment.  Most of them are married and have to leave their families so they can give them convenience and the comforts in life, something which they cannot provide had they stayed back home.

       In the country we see our leaders engaged in destructive partisan politics, corruption is endemic in high places and justice is for sale.

         It is very ironic that you have to leave the Philippines to find your own identity and true character.  Yes, we are a country of whiners, fault finders and corrupt individuals, but in some strange place, Filipinos are hardworking, honest and fair.

        In this trip also, I was able to peep through the character of my children once again and still find the  moral compass you have instilled in them while they were still young; they have grown and have quite developed certain personalities, but your reservation of their capacity to mature has exceeded your expectation.  With misty eyes you ponder how they come to care for each other . 

Pinoy Chef from Bulacan Chiseling Out Love Birds from Block of Ice

Pinoy Chef from Bulacan Chiseling Out Love Birds from Block of Ice

      I found the long lost  Filipino character from the Filipino crew in this ship and I found my children’s soul.  These are enough to soothe a bruised social conscience.    
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